I just realized how I managed to succeed in the workplace (until I collapsed from the strain of pretending to be NT) - shorthand. I learned it in high school. You know how aspies have trouble multi-tasking? by which I think they mean getting a whole bunch of directions about different things at the same time. Well, shorthand is the answer. I never went anywhere on the job with pen & paper, and I wrote down everything anybody said re work. I see now that I didn't understand any of it then, but later, when I sat down with a shorthand transcript of what the boss had said, I could figure it out. I was as fast as the others and my work was high quality.
For whatever it may be worth, hope it helps somebody.