firemonkey wrote:
Edna3362 wrote:
I don't understand your original post. Because I didn't get the reference. I don't know what major and minor leagues mean.
Baseball.
A known sports by name thanks to American media, yet not a very big and known sport from where I came from.
In which minor leagues mean as a student, while major leagues mean as an adult dealing with societal affairs?
Double exceptionality certainly applies.
It's clear that you got high IQ networks.
But do you also have an ND network in your younger days to go along with that?
I really wonder...
If there really is such thing as a double exceptionalities network that emphasizes on neither extremes -- and are generally "moderately functioning" in case to case basis instead of just extremes of overachievers and underachievers, independent high fliers self-accomodators and dependents needing networks of caregivers.
Why not the neither and both?..
Just a thought.
Anyways.
If a gifted student is left alone, also even without the case of double exceptionalities...
Since they hadn't had to work very hard in their studies in their younger days, they ended up not building habits related to studying.
The need to deal with stress and pressure and how to cope with it, the need to come up and work with solutions instead of just pops in their head, the practice of asking for help...
It's a common pitfall in students who never have to work hard with their grades but ends up terrible at work.
One doesn't need to have high IQ or double exceptionality for that. It's how many gifted students becomes ex-gifted students.
Even I fell on such pitfall myself.
No academic issues for me from kinder to college with very negligent habits.
And I'm still playing catch up related to emotional and social development needed in the working world.
Partially autism, partially lack of practice and habit that supposed to prepare me for employment.
I understand wanting to do it in a brute force manner of achieving things. More so as a child and teenager.
But I gotta turn back from such idea and way of living, because it didn't work out.
I fell due to ignoring puberty alone and tried to brute force that -- imagine how serious mental illness would do to me with the same approach instead.