Anakili83 wrote:
I didn't even think of that! Yeah my interactions with his moody, bossy attitude clashed real quick. And it's sad because he used to be my therapist and did the same thing. I didn't want him to evaluate me for that reason but it started out so well. I'm taking your advice because he didn't take enough time to solidify even what he will say "positive" on. Thanks for confirming that!
Unfortunately, it is a common issue as development disorders haven't been particularly well studied if they don't show up super early and result in traits that are too strong to ignore.
Nobody even started publishing research on masking until 1999, which makes it hard for anybody to draw a clear line.