DuckHairback wrote:
MaxE wrote:
DuckHairback wrote:
^I'm glad someone else saw it. I think it's one of the better portrayals of autism in TV.
This show did perpetuate a stereotype of autistic women seeking to fulfill sexual desires in a strictly physical sense. The young woman (Matilda) is shown arranging hookups via Tinder, after having married her asexual girlfriend (apparently she's homoromantic but heteroerotic). I have seen this stereotype in the media before, although from what I've seen on WP it would seem to apply to only a small percentage of autistic women IRL. What surprises me is that this portrayal didn't seem to get any sort of widespread criticism.
Is that really a stereotype associated with autistic women? I've never heard that before.
I didn't read it like that. I thought Matilda was someone who was kind of rushing to be (what she thought constituted) an adult, coming up against a cultural landscape that is actively deconstructing traditional relationships, and getting very confused along the way.
I do believe that stereotype, or trope, exists, although I'm not motivated to try to prove that. If you saw The Bridge (Alex Plank was a consultant on that) you might recall the autistic female character, Sonya Cross, feeling randy, going to a cowboy bar, and asking the hottest cowboy she saw there if he wanted sex. And I think there have been a couple others. Your reading definitely comes across as more intellectual, but I don't see it that way. When she used Tinder, she wasn't confused — she knew what she wanted (I won't elaborate as this isn't the Adult forum).
Ironically, both my two most serious relationships were with people I believe were on the autism spectrum (the first probably BAP and the second would probably have been diagnosed Level 1 ASD had she been born 40 years later). And both were capable of seeking casual sex for its own sake. Long stories, but I haven't seen many examples on WP, so although I think it's possible, it's still not a good way to characterize "typical" autistic women.
As for the actor on Everything's Gonna be OK, I happen to think her career would be in better shape had she not publicized her autism diagnosis. That won't be a popular opinion on WP. She has a very unusual look and doesn't interview as autistic, so who knows.
As for her character being a piano virtuoso, to my knowledge, basically anyone who becomes famous as a pianist will be a virtuoso at that age, so I wouldn't think that reason to call her a savant. Were she like, non-verbal but able to reproduce any given piano solo after one hearing, and without ever having had lessons, then yes. There are actually people like that.
EDIT here's a thread from 10 years ago:
Claim Promiscuity Is Frequently Observed In Women With AS?