Ok, Autism and dating is a bit of a mine field, I am probably autistic and awaiting a test later this month, the fact of the matter is I have just exited a relationship that was frankly toxic, an older woman took a shine to me one Sunday a few months ago after a church service and solicited me for my phone numbers, at first it was very good, then when I told her I probably have autism she promptly dumped me using the excuse that I had put a friend up for one night in my own house who had travelled a grate distance and arrived at one in the morning, the only word that comes to mind is narcasistic, given my situation I am seeking a suitable autistic lady some 10 to 15 years younger then my self who understands what it is to be autistic and who i can connect with