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two weeks ago, i wasted a lot of time and energy pulling the weeds out of my backyard, b/c a couple of weeks before that, my sister told me to pull weeds once every couple of days. which sounded way too often to me, but whatever. my sister owns the house that i live in, and every time i bother her (for example, dryer not working, leaky faucet), she threatens to sell the house. now that i am 41, pulling weeds makes my worthless corpse stiff and sore. it takes a lot of time and energy to pull the smallest amount of weeds. yes, plenty of people much older than me do gardening, but maybe they are much healthier than me. some of your health, you control. some of your health, you do not control.
cooking could be a really good idea. i do not even know how to fry an egg. been living alone for five years or so. everything i eat that is warm or hot, comes from the microwave. not ideal, but good enough for all practical purposes. tired of eating the same thing every day, but there is enough of it (quantity). nutrition decent but not great. just not gourmet or delicious but whatever. "life" goes on. cooking more could save $$$ on groceries. on the other hand, i do not *really* buy that much ready to eat food per se. lentil salad, tempeh, ready to eat.