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The overall tone of members on a message board can be difficult to understand without knowing when someone is being serious or being humorous. This has even become an issue on boards I correspond with people on.
Yes, I have a hard time with that, as well. Fortunately, the boards that I post at are rather light-hearted. When there is a misunderstanding, I usually just explain that I have a hard time recognizing sarcasm.
I have been through several "forum rifts" as well, but neither instance directly involved me. I tend to be objective and stay out of the fray when things get messy, unless I have a strong opinion on some subject.
On one of the other message boards, they are all aware that I think I may be autistic. That's the board I posted the AQ test at, as I am comfortable with most of the people there, and have built up enough trust to share that part of myself with them. I have formed several good friendships there, and possibly met another undiagnosed aspie, as well : ).
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I am thinking it may be more about asserting/affirming one's existence. Anyone else care to comment?
That is interesting. I think part of what is considered "attention-seeking behavior" is seeking to affirm one's own identity and existence. After all, why else would teenagers rebel? They don't do it just to get attention, I think, it's a way for them to shape their identity independently of their parents.
I don't really do this, I also never went through the "rebel against the parents" stage. I tend to use my intellect to get attention, instead. On message boards I like to post information for others, because it makes me feel smart and it also makes me feel useful. I think this may be another form of "affirming one's existence," just as every interaction with others is.