Are you too nice or too mean?

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Ana54
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27 Sep 2007, 3:11 pm

I was too nice all throughout school, and too mean with my parents. Not now so much though.

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27 Sep 2007, 3:12 pm

Too mean when I should be nice, too nice when I should be mean...

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27 Sep 2007, 3:13 pm

I'm afraid I'm too nice because I am too soft on people because I am too afraid to tell them off like I don't ever want to meet them, they freak me out, and I didn't want to tell my last boyfreind I wanted to be single again because I was afraid it hurt his feelings andit make his depression worse because I had added to it. It's very hard for me to be informal with people because I am too soft. I need to toughen up a little and stop being afraid and stop worrying about pissing people off.

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27 Sep 2007, 3:35 pm

Plutonian_Persona wrote:

Too mean when I should be nice, too nice when I should be mean...

Yeah, same here.

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27 Sep 2007, 3:49 pm

Too mean. I'm working on being nicer.

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27 Sep 2007, 3:56 pm

i'm infamous for being a total doormat. I can't stand the thought I've made somebody unhappy, it makes me really anxious.

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27 Sep 2007, 4:24 pm

I often have my defenses up and that often causes me to be mean.
I have had my moments of "too nice-ness" though.

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27 Sep 2007, 4:26 pm

I'm mostly nice, but I can be mean sometimes.

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27 Sep 2007, 4:32 pm

I'm extremely nice to people who are even the tiniest bit of nice to me.

I'm very mean to people who are unnice, cruel, self-serving at my cost.

I feign nice when necessary for survival.

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27 Sep 2007, 4:38 pm

Too nice but I would say I unintentionally do mean things like most aspies likely do. I notice myself saying G*d d*mn too much under my breath (though not around people) . Such as when I walk my dogs and they do some sudden movement that causes me pain.

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27 Sep 2007, 4:41 pm

I'm too nice most of the time.

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27 Sep 2007, 4:42 pm

Ana54 wrote:

I was too nice all throughout school, and too mean with my parents. Not now so much though.

I was the same as you, too nice with everybody, and too mean with my parents.

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27 Sep 2007, 4:46 pm

Usually my mean/nice rating reflects who I am talking to at that moment. If someone is being a jerk to me, I become a jerk to them...

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27 Sep 2007, 4:48 pm

sarahstilettos wrote:

i'm infamous for being a total doormat. I can't stand the thought I've made somebody unhappy, it makes me really anxious.

I feel exactly the same way.

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27 Sep 2007, 5:21 pm

Im pretty sure I got the nice/mean when Im supposed to thing down. Sometimes its more of a question of the right time to react and to what degree.

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27 Sep 2007, 5:34 pm

Most of the time I am far to nice for my own good. Except when being a doormat gets to much and I snap at the people I am normally nice to. Gives them a good old scare.
I always seem to be spending more thought processes on not upsetting people, than I do on myself. This is why I snap and get mean and grumpy.

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