I was... not so much now that I learned to take them seriously when someone says them; they have legitimate thoughts and feelings that they're trying to express and jsut because a saying has been used over and over doesn't make it illegitimate... I used to not really be impacted by something someone said unless they came up with an original way to say it, showing that they thought it out and took the time to say it in their own words, or came up with it independently, showing they didn't just take it from someone so that they'd have something to say.