Kateyjane wrote:
I too am right where I left me. I don't feel stolen at all. My son was stolen....but by his dad and an as*hole judge....so I'm not sure he counts. Besides, if you listen to my ex, he's cured my son of autism.
I was once told that I couldn't understand the anguish and true tragedy of autism because my son was too high functioning. As if I didn't go through all the same steps to get the dx. I mean, how anguishing is it to go through life for almost 40 years thinking that there might be something so truly deviant about you that you should hide behind anti depressants and group therapy just to know you're alive. How anguishing to watch your child struggle through 15 years of trying to gain just a little ground like the other kids. How anguishing is it for me to go through court hearings listening to my ex husband and the judge berate me because I had my son labeled on the spectrum, supposedly to fit my own sick Munchausen by Proxy standards. As if with my incredible IQ I couldn't think of something better to get attention than autism. Boy, it's really getting me a lot of attention because my kid's autistic. I truly feel special now. (For those of you who missed the subtlety...that was SARCASM.)
Sorry....went off on a tangent there, didn't I. I should learn to use my inside voice more often.
I'm sorry about your ex doing that to you. I can't imagine too many things that would be more traumatizing.
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