2ukenkerl wrote:
But another then said you WEREN'T AS, and you agreed with THEM, right?
The latter, the one who noted AS, diagnosed me with Autism when I brought it up (he neglected to inform me that I had an ASD); in a clinical setting, he said he wouldn't have guessed that I was Autistic (rather, Asperger's in his opinion), but when my developmental history, and that I'm entirely different away from a clinical setting, were both taken into account, he saw the Autism and put that in my folder.
You're right, "normal" people display many things that are common to ASDs, it's just that those with ASDs usually display the whole lot. The things I listed are just as common to AS as Autism, and individuals with Autism without mental retardation don't appear too different in a mechanical and/or clinical setting as those with AS, it's when they're away from such and out amongst people where the differences are evident.
In most cases, it's clearly evident if someone knows what to look for, even in those who're undiagnosed and are living "normally". My father for example, doesn't make eye contact, and he has a narrow/obsessive interest that he'll devote all of his free time to, plus other things of Asperger's. I see it clearly.
Whilst it's a different way of thinking, it's also a different way of interacting which is different to "normal", even if said interaction manifests differently in each person (it's more clustered in groups I've found, rather than each individual with an ASD interacting differently).