Are you spiteful?

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I am, I'll admit it. I'm extremely proud and when I feel wronged, I'm spiteful as anything. It's something I really need to work on before I screw myself over in the process.

What's the most spiteful thing you've ever done?

I've done a couple. When I was a kid, my brother kept teasing me about something - can't remember what. I never could see the humor in teasing, and grew increasingly annoyed, asking him to stop. When he wouldn't, I waited until he was out of the house, went into his room, and ripped apart a piece of art work he had just won a prize for. I felt really bad about it, later.

I'm only spiteful with words, when i'm not thinking. I wouldn't hurt a fly.

after I found out that my boyfriend had been cheating on me for months with this awful teenaged slut, I ripped up some of her clothes and cut up a pair of her shoes....I constantly had to be around her and she pretended to be my friend all the while constantly lying to me in the most heinous ways.
Anytime I find something that belongs to her, I throw it in the garbage.

If that is being spiteful, then I guess I am spiteful.

I have to be provoked greatly to be spiteful. I used to be quite spiteful, but I realised an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. Unfortunately, I went to the other extreme and suppressed a good deal of anger that would be there for my own good.

I get angry sometimes, but I just channel it into my music, art, and writing. I've only tried to get revenge once (as an adult). I called a guy and yelled at him. I regretted it afterwards, and still do.

When I was a kid, I fought back a few times while being bullied. One girl was being really mean to me, and without thinking, I shoved her. I didn't mean to hit her at all, especially not hard, but she ended up tumbling backwards down a hill. Fortunately, she was not injured. I appologized, and she left me alone from then on.

Never to people(at least no incidences in memory at the moment), but sometimes to animals if they have done something to me which I disdain(I especially hate them getting too close to me or rubbing on me. I'm usually only comfortable around reptiles. Furry things have hair and funny smells and they bother me.).

Yes, I realize that's very immature and stupid, but I often forget that animals don't think like me or to anywhere near that capacity.

I try to never be spiteful.

Tim

I don't consider myself particularly spiteful.

Yes I can get very spiteful if I get real mad. I have gotten mad at a another guy my age when I was 18 so I went around asking people to spam his forum and I spread rumors about him by saying he hates people with disabilities which is what I really thought back then lol, so his forum kept being spammed by my great online boyfriend and other anonymous people kept spamming it too and then one day he disappeared off the internet and went into hiding. He hangs out at this one adult site now and he did return back to one of the wetting forums we were both on and posed as a teenage girl and he was caught by one of the other forum mods who was his friend and he was very hurt so he made a post about it. I think I made him a dysfunctional guy. He did come back on the other forum too I go on but he doesn't post as much. Seems like he stopped when I replied to one of his threads.
I never regretted it.

You know, in reading these posts, I'm starting to realize that my spite is pretty much an internal thing. I've been trying to think of an example of something spiteful I've done to post and I can't think of anything. I guess the closest I've come is not telling a roommate in college when my boyfriend peed in her shampoo (she so deserved it too).

I think my spitefulness usually results in a coldness towards whoever has hurt me, even if I really want to talk to them. Chances are they don't even notice the difference (they hurt me so why would they care enough to notice?).

I've been trying to express it more when I'm hurt instead of letting it simmer inside. Maybe I'm not as spiteful as I thought. My ex always told me I was spiteful, but what the hell does he know?

I'm rarely spiteful, I'm not really the kind of person that into revenge except of the harmless, friendly, prankish for of revenge and I'm not really much into holding grudges, either. I try to treat people fairly, only withholding compassion or sympathy in order to fairly punish instead of out of revenge or spite