In the information age, it is an evolutionary advantage to value analysis over human social interaction. It is an advantage to be able to hyperfocus on a computer for 8 hours a day. Now that dating and socialization are also more of an analytical activity (social networking and dating websites) geeks/aspies are now much more able to breed. In the media "geek chic" is popular and geeks are starting to be seen as desirable mates. I believe all of this contributes to the "autism explosion"... Dot Com nerds didn't just acquire money in the 1990s, we also acquired mates, and produced children... autistic children.
I am just saying that in the information age, analytics are more important than biceps, and by and large I believe the human genome is responding to that niche.
One of the biggest differences between humans and other animals is that our brains are so important that as infants we are basically a giant brain casing (head) connected to a useless body. Most other animals are significantly more self sufficient, much earlier. That is why we have very active parents, to help us to grow, develop, and become self sufficient slowly, so that we can continue to wield that massive brain. It is sometimes counter-intuative that humans can be viewed as the top of the evolutionary tree, even though there are animals that are much faster, stronger, and durable... and they are all of those things much earlier than humans are.
In fact if you looked objectivly at a human baby, you might assume that they were low on the evolutionary tree. Now look at an aspie child. They often need more care untill later in life. They are often less self sufficient at a comperable age to a normal human. So I submit that the counter-intuitive principle that forces us to look at human development as a group rather than as an individual would cause us to realize that developmental delays might actually be an evolution-positive trait, since it allows our brains to develop in a way that is sometimes more useful for the tasks that we need to do.
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