OregonBecky wrote:
We seem to pick out details that NT's don't highlight and, sometimes, get onto aspects that confuse and confound people. In my case, I get distracted really easily.
Sometimes we say what we mean but in the NT world, they'll hear something else, like when I told a doctor, I really love Xanax. He heard it as if I'm an out of control addict. I hardly take it but it's a big help for me when I need it, so I really love it. It took awhile for me to realize that he was reading in between the lines and he was wrong and he'd never thought to clarify what he was assuming.
Sometime I think aspies need to be prodded into getting back onto the main subject but they need to be told in a way that doesn't make them feel that they're not disliked.
I really hate when people "read between the lines" of what I'm saying. I don't put anything between the lines.