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OregonBecky
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26 Jan 2008, 7:54 pm

Wouldn't it be cool if, we looking for a doctor, for instance, in the Yellow Pages, that there was the phrase "We speak aspie" in some of the ads. It would sure influence me about who I would do business with.

I had to sign some papers at the bank and asked the banker what would she think of a banker who spoke aspie for customers who needed an aspie translator. She thought it would make life at the bank a lot more fun and actually saw a need.


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26 Jan 2008, 8:04 pm

I speak "autie"
I speak 'down syndrome'

Though aspie, I don't know if I speak it. Though I think I can type it ok. 8) 8) 8)
It is a wonderful idea Becky!!


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26 Jan 2008, 8:44 pm

Aspie is too ambiguous! Sometimes I say things and then think about what I said and realize that it doesn't make any sense without the context that I was thinking about.



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26 Jan 2008, 8:51 pm

how do you speak 'aspie?'..;) ain't we the ones that don't speak? or too much?



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26 Jan 2008, 8:58 pm

We have our own langauge now?



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26 Jan 2008, 9:01 pm

We seem to pick out details that NT's don't highlight and, sometimes, get onto aspects that confuse and confound people. In my case, I get distracted really easily.

Sometimes we say what we mean but in the NT world, they'll hear something else, like when I told a doctor, I really love Xanax. He heard it as if I'm an out of control addict. I hardly take it but it's a big help for me when I need it, so I really love it. It took awhile for me to realize that he was reading in between the lines and he was wrong and he'd never thought to clarify what he was assuming.

Sometime I think aspies need to be prodded into getting back onto the main subject but they need to be told in a way that doesn't make them feel that they're not disliked.


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26 Jan 2008, 9:24 pm

I think it's cool, that we have our own language. 8)


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26 Jan 2008, 11:24 pm

Every group has thier own way it expresses itself. 8) It might confuse others. 8O

I am still trying to learn the lingo . :P


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26 Jan 2008, 11:25 pm

OregonBecky wrote:
We seem to pick out details that NT's don't highlight and, sometimes, get onto aspects that confuse and confound people. In my case, I get distracted really easily.

Sometimes we say what we mean but in the NT world, they'll hear something else, like when I told a doctor, I really love Xanax. He heard it as if I'm an out of control addict. I hardly take it but it's a big help for me when I need it, so I really love it. It took awhile for me to realize that he was reading in between the lines and he was wrong and he'd never thought to clarify what he was assuming.

Sometime I think aspies need to be prodded into getting back onto the main subject but they need to be told in a way that doesn't make them feel that they're not disliked.


I really hate when people "read between the lines" of what I'm saying. I don't put anything between the lines.



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27 Jan 2008, 6:52 am

LVBen wrote:
Aspie is too ambiguous! Sometimes I say things and then think about what I said and realize that it doesn't make any sense without the context that I was thinking about.


hehe I do that a lot too. A lot :?



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27 Jan 2008, 1:29 pm

SirLogiC wrote:
LVBen wrote:
Aspie is too ambiguous! Sometimes I say things and then think about what I said and realize that it doesn't make any sense without the context that I was thinking about.


hehe I do that a lot too. A lot :?


Haha. That's what it's all about. When I'm with members of my own tribe, it all makes sense or it all comes together to eventually make sense. :D


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28 Jan 2008, 3:30 am

OregonBecky wrote:
SirLogiC wrote:
LVBen wrote:
Aspie is too ambiguous! Sometimes I say things and then think about what I said and realize that it doesn't make any sense without the context that I was thinking about.


hehe I do that a lot too. A lot :?


Haha. That's what it's all about. When I'm with members of my own tribe, it all makes sense or it all comes together to eventually make sense. :D


I doubt that NTs know the context that I was thinking about most of the time in these situations! An Aspie would probably have an even harder time trying to figure it out!



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28 Jan 2008, 3:37 am

As much of a good idea as it seems, it would only bring negative stereotypes upon us aspies.

Know what I mean? I don't want to describe it.


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28 Jan 2008, 4:03 am

Triangular_Trees wrote:
I really hate when people "read between the lines" of what I'm saying. I don't put anything between the lines.

Me too. Where do they get this imaginary information from?



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28 Jan 2008, 4:42 am

Kaleido wrote:
Triangular_Trees wrote:
I really hate when people "read between the lines" of what I'm saying. I don't put anything between the lines.

Me too. Where do they get this imaginary information from?


I think it's because so much of their communication is non-verbal; they are used to reading between the lines with each other. We look normal, so they have no way of knowing that we don't operate like them. It doesn't make them or us bad people, or stupid.


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28 Jan 2008, 5:11 am

Is speaking "aspie" like sounding as if you've just gained your fifth doctorate, but in actual reality you're a high school dropout?

That's me.