AspieDave wrote:
The treatment people of my era from the 1960's got was a little different. It was called get the snot beat out of you by half the football team treatment. Being bigger than most of them, at over 6 feet by 7th grade, I only got that as long as I didn't fight back. I resisted doing so because I hated the violence, I hated the feeling it gave me and I hated how MUCH I wanted to keep hitting them... People my size learn early on that other people BREAK if you're not careful. I saw it happen to plenty of others, and no I didn't intervene for exactly the same reasons I already listed. No adult would intervene, the teachers and administrators coddled the little bastards from the sports teams like they were young gods, which only cause their behavior to worsen.
Reading Lord of the Flies years later was no real surprise for me. I'd seen it already.
HOWEVER, early intervention is very beneficial if the program is suited to the child's level of affect. My son was in a program but I don't think they ever used any of the terms you have. It wasn't ABA, he was in a very small group all of whom were very high functioning... A bunch of 4 year olds using 5 syllable words and lecturing each other nonstop on unrelated topics... And yes, it helped socialize him. He is not nearly as affected as his little brother who wasn't able to go to that program, it had already been cut by the time he was old enough.
I'm glad you replied here because we seem to be at odds on the other thread. Yet, sounds like we have something in common. Little boys on the spectrum. Our kid has made super progress, but the true acid test is in the future. We would like for him to be like many Asperger people here and be able to have a less restrictive life. It doesn't have to be a perfect life because nobody's life is perfect. But, one where we don't have to worry about him if something happens to us.
Nomanlist, we've met Temple. She's a great lady. I agree that the prognosis for Aspergers is a lot better and that's cool you're teaching at the university level. Way cool.