IpsoRandomo wrote:
KateShroud wrote:
To me all of you seem like veterans! I wish I'd seen this website at least a year ago, and it never ceases to surprise me when I look at the stats at the top of the page, to find that a new member has ...
How do you do this if you're blind? Does someone else read it for you or are you yankin' our chains?
A lot of profoundly deaf people I know will say they heard about something. It's a figure of speech for having gotten the information prior to the current discussion. Looking at the stats here means she (via whatever accomodation she uses) understands and has interpreted the information.
That said, I am possibly an Aspie and was born with a high frequency hearing loss which doubles the pleasure in social situations... Without aids I don't hear many speech sounds, and even with aids there is still distortion to work with.
But yeah. I don't constantly think about my hearing loss. When I tell people, they apologize as though I just said my uncle died last night. Some tell me about a cousin's friend's brother who is in a wheelchair/blind/epileptic. Fascinating story, but has nothing to do with me or my bad ears. :-p And no one ever thinks, 'maybe she seems like she didn't hear me *because* she didn't hear me!' I get called a b***h, racist, etc on occasion, the occasional dirty look. This would be a bigger problem if I ventured into the land of the living more.
For me, having the aids in is an unnatural experience. I've always had bad hearing, and it's what I'm used to and it takes a lot of work to build up my tolerance for amplifications. But I don't cry myself to sleep over this. What's the point? The nerves are dead. They're going to stay dead.
Top it off, certain sounds drive me batty enough without having the volume turned up. >_< And no, turning up the TV is not a substitute for closed captioning! I HATE LOUD TVS!
Sorry for the vent. I'm sure you have a similar list of the social interactions that come with being having a more 'obvious' impairment than Asperger's. I find the symptoms which may be AS-related to be more frustrating than the hearing loss.