A 'friend' that talks more than me.

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My 2 friends and I usually converse about topics that interest us. Yet, this stalker kid blabs about stuff while we're talking. It's usually something that I don't care about. It's making my sensory problems worse, yet helping me understand what I put people through myself.
He usually makes immature jokes, such as 'your mom', for no reason. Like after someone says anything...he'll reply with something stupid. He always talks about a television show I don't watch. It would be more interesting if he didn't have a monotone voice. It feels like a constant feed into my ears.
I sometimes actually wish I didn't have friends. Yes, it gets that bad.
A girl comes up to me at a dance and he's still talking to me. It's not like I'd be any better off, because of social skills, but come on.
If I tell him to stop talking or go away he is illresponsive, or accepting for the first minute-then talks again.
What should I do WP?

Tell them to get a life.

Have you tried ignoring them?

Yes, but he doesn't have anyone else who he could talk to-at least without punching him in the face.
I physicially tried running away or hiding from him, but he always finds me.
When I tell him to stfu he says he's talking to someone else...who is generally my best friend. Trust me, he is definately annoyed by him also.

A person is a friend or even a ""friend"" when you enjoy the interaction with them. This is not a friend, and therefore shouldn't be this close to you.

I had a kid who bugged the hell out of me like that too. I don't think I ever really got him to stop, but then my family moved and everything was wonderful. At least his parents were loaded and he had the awesomest birthday parties. Also, his stepmom was really hot.

I know an aspie girl somewhat like that. She only talks about her. Shes seemingly unaware that she doesnt engage in two sided conversation. shes not conceited, just massively failing theory of mind.

Another woman I know is similar, but shes got only three topics, her husband, her kids, and their house. This one IS annoying, and has a poor idea of hygene and personal space. She needs to brush her teeth and not talk to others with her face 6-12 inches from theirs.

As far as "friend" goes, it sounds like his is parroting phrases, Echolalia?

Finally, some people speak because they have something to say. Others speak because they must say something.

my thoughts exactly. Monotone voice and the way that person acts.. very AS typical.

Are you sure his names not Darren and hes a 38 year old Obsessive Compulsive selfish selfrightous homosexual republican christian virgin trekkie who lives in Fairfield, picks both nostirls with his thumbs at the same time chews with his mouth open and owns more dvds than Blockbuster ?

Have you told him to stop saying " what you should do is" only to have it replaced by " well what I would do is"?

Have you been trying to get rid of him for over 15 years?

I really cant relate.

Try sneaking a booger in his baked potato to hide among the bacon bits.( It didnt make him shut up but the thought keeps me warm some nights.)

You could also beat him up, act like a jerk or spread rumors about him.( and make him find out its you)

But it sounds like yore too nice a guy . I mean if he doesnt have you for a friend who does he have?
Can you bribe him into setting some boundries?

The "friends" who think they're your friends or especially, think you think they're your friends are especially annoying.

I don't have any advice, since everything I try with people like this doesn't work.