Surreal wrote:
I was told that perhaps my job insurance will cover the cost of getting evaluated, but I'm afraid it will get back to my employer and be used against me!
THAT is the NUMBER ONE BARRIER to getting it done!
Its not like Having AS is going to cause you to miss work for hospital visits, or drive up the companies' insurance rates. I know companies will fire an employee for having a heart attack (I've seen it happen), though they will never admit that's why. But having an invisible neurological condition won't affect their bottom line either way, and the suits won't understand what AS is, even if you explain it to them with coloring books and an Elmo doll.
More likely if they know you have a diagnosed neuropsychiatric disability it will make them more hesitant to fire you. Corporate suits are afraid to be perceived as discriminatory against the disabled, because they don't want expensive lawsuits cutting into their profit margin, or picketers and news crews outside damaging their brand image. I worked with a very nice, quiet guy who had schizophrenia, and the executives walked on eggshells around him, lest they upset him in any way. You'd have thought he was going to turn into the Hulk or something.
And once you've disclosed it to them, if they use it against you, sue them for discrimination. I think you're more likely to be fired for it if they
don't know. They're going to fire you for being odd, antisocial, uncooperative or insubordinate when you can't comply with a direct order - not being able to give it a clinical name actually makes you
more vulnerable, because you have no recourse when they fire you for your disorder, since you don't OFFICIALLY
have a disorder.