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29 Feb 2008, 6:44 pm

I've read in a couple of different places where they've said that stimming occurs less as we get older.

For me though, it's the complete opposite though. Am I just odd? Or is that normal for anyone else?


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29 Feb 2008, 6:49 pm

I think it has more to do with anxiety levels and not age.


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29 Feb 2008, 7:09 pm

lastcrazyhorn wrote:
I've read in a couple of different places where they've said that stimming occurs less as we get older.

For me though, it's the complete opposite though. Am I just odd? Or is that normal for anyone else?


I did it less and then more again. I think it depends on a lot of things (not just anxiety or any other particular emotion) which way it goes. Both are pretty common.


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29 Feb 2008, 8:05 pm

It's lessened for me in that I don't do it in public anymore, and if I do I can hide it so no one will notice. When I was a little kid I used to stim on the playground and people thought I was crazy. :lol:



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29 Feb 2008, 8:57 pm

I've noticed no difference over the years and agree that it's related to stress/anxiety levels.



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29 Feb 2008, 10:40 pm

Stimming against the tide topic

I do not know how you would know for certain. As for me, I sometimes do not realize I am stimming until the action (eg, hand flapping) is almost finished its cycle. But I would not know for sure how many flaps had occurred before the behaviour is practically extinguished.

But you asked if anyone noticed if there was an increase or reduction. I remember that is seemed like I did it more when I was younger, but I still know I stim. It is hard to compare. All subjective. The energy level is reduced. It would be interesting to track a group of stimmers over a forty year period to see if this is the case.

Good question. :D


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01 Mar 2008, 8:33 am

S'use, you bring up a very good point. I generally don't notice until I'm in the midst of stimming so I rely upon cues to confirm the onset and the reaction to it by others. When I said I haven't noticed a difference, I should have probably said, "My wife hasn't noticed a difference."

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01 Mar 2008, 8:53 am

I find myself almost constantly rocking when I'm by myself.

I think because I was a major thumbsucker as a child, my stimming wasn't noticed as such an odd thing perhaps.


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01 Mar 2008, 9:00 am

I have had this experience as well.


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01 Mar 2008, 12:27 pm

I did it quite a bit until I was around 10, then it started to lessen. Since around this time last year though I have been doing it more then ever.