Help with scripting.
This is my first post to this forum and I hope someone can shed some light on this little problem we have. I think I may be Aspie or at least my wife is of that opinion. Does not make much of a difference anyway. We have 2 kids who are in the spectrum. Our eldest daughter who is 11 is clearly Aspie and our son who is 7 is working his way over there slowly but surely. My little dilema is with our son. He likes to script CONSTANTLY, and I mean CONSTANTLY. Today I took him fishing. We got to the canal about 10 am and left around 4 pm. There were no 2 consecutive minutes in which he was not murmuring a script for a TV show. My question is this "Does he derive any kind of pleasure from constantly repeating a dialog he has heard, does the constant talking help him modulate his 'sensory issues' or does any one have any insight into what can be going on? " I know that scripting is very frequent but it is VERY ANNOYING to whomever has to be standing next to him. Not only do I want to be able to enjoy time with my son but I am also worried that this behavior is going to drive others away from him. Please help me and my wife understand this behaviour and I any of you had this problem when kids please tell us about how it turned out. Thanks.
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lelia
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Okay, what he's doing is not called scripting. It's called, uh, aphasia kicking in here, uh, not echolocation, a more technical term than parroting, uh... when I think of the term I'll let you know.
And what he is doing is useful. It won't last forever, most likely. People who (do what your son is doing) usually move on to using scraps of this repeated dialog in their conversations. Since most of what we see is fairly routine, that will get him through most days. The next time you go to work, listen to the people around you and see how many repeat lines from television.
He is in a stage, and so are you. Both of you will be moving onto another stage as both of you mature more and learn more. You are still in the overfretting about the future stage.
The first year after my daughter was diagnosed, I could not think the word "ret*d" without bursting into tears. And since that was all I could think about, I cried a lot. The next few years I could not say the word "ret*d" without bursting into tears. Thirty years later it's no big whoop. I don't know why we parents have to hurt for so long first, but that seems the way it goes.