Danielismyname wrote:
House is just a typical jerk (people like this are everywhere); Monk has the "geek syndrome" along with his anxiety disorders.
The two above lack the telltale absence of multiple nonverbal behaviours that are always evident in ASDs (plus they interact far too well with far too many people).
I admit that both are rather interpreted versions of aspies, and that their players - being actors and no more experts than I am - are far more interactive than they ought to be, but I do see frequent attempts to show the non-verbal disconnects you mention. I think non-communication may be the hardest thing to communicate on stage.
I don't think I've ever seen Monk move his face or body in any way helpful to communication. He may grimace or look overwhelmed, but never anything else. Sometimes he'll smile, but it tends to be overdone and obviously unskilled.
House is a jerk, but I think aspies can be jerks too.
I'm not sure they are as social as you imply. I think neither of them is being social from preference, at least. And neither is doing a very good job of it. Also, they are both extremely bright and motivated, and may be socializing with skills they've learned by rote and long practice.
I, myself, have ended up on the technical support telephone bank. I socialize politely, and with a fairly intelligent humor, every day, dozens of times a day. I do it well because I've learned and practiced certain techniques that I've found to put NTs at ease, and to get them to tell me things I can actually use. I don't enjoy it. I'd rather poke a screwdriver in my ear.
The fact that I've learned how to pass as an NT, at some level that makes it possible to earn a living, doesn't make me an NT - regardless of how they think over at Autism Speaks
It just makes me an unhappy – and grumpy – aspie. Perhaps some people see me as a grumpy jerk sometimes
So, you may be right. Monk and House may just be weird and cranky. But they're close enough to aspies for my taste.