Metalwolf wrote:
My obsession:
I want to have a baby.
I am 28 years old, a woman, and I have a job. But I am living with my parents because I do not have enough money to afford an apartment. So I am stuck.
But anyway, the point is this: Does medication have any ways of taking away or reducing an autistic obsession, or is that just wishful thinking? And would anyone here want to give up their obsession if they could?
This is very complicated, because the tendency toward obsession and the wanting a baby may be two distinct things:
a. general obsessiveness, and
b. hormones
Believe me, I am familiar with these two forces, and finally had my first baby at 35. I later took medications, which do help reduce the obsessions (as well as the desire to keep the obsessions), but I am certain that they would have had no effect on my overwhelming urge to have a baby; I am convinced that was a pure, hormonal drive.
The other thing you should be aware of is that you should NOT consider becoming pregnant if you are on those drugs, and, as
nightbender wrote, they are very difficult to come off.
As far as being a single Mom, it is do-able, but difficult - if you don't make enough money for an apartment, having a child will make your money situation even tighter. You would need years of financial support, and/or free daycare, if your parents are up for it.
Good luck!