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Ok. so i went to homecoming football game, and I just got back. I can safely say that I did NOT have fun. First off, my brother went there last year and so he wanted to go. So he took me and his friend David (who totally rocks) and we went to the football game were I was to meet my friend Lily. so first we see this total BLEEP who has been spreading rumours about me and my friend, and who mae us lose all our friends because we told the principal about a guy who Grabbed my Boobs and molested other girls. so she see's David and is all like "Oh HIIII David." all crappy sweet. and she see's me and glares her butt off. So david starts saying how nice she is once she leaves, and I start telling my brother about how NOT nice she is. then I see a sort of friend of mine and say hi, but she completely ignores me. then My friend finally gets there while it's jam packed. So then we find this guy who she went out with for a day ( and has been asking him out again, even though she has a boyfrind she's been with for 3 weeks) and she starts to ignore me. The she calls this other guy she likes ( who is way out of her league and older then us. he's also firends with david) and she ignores me more. I got so bored with their flirting I felt like crying. Then suddenly it was half time and I missed the whole show because people were in the way. so i saw this girl I used to out with and her sister was crowned queen, so we go and see some of my ex friends. including a friend who went to a different school. I felt weird seeing her. I said, hello and we hugged, but then they walked off and started talking about things that they have done together in the past. So I thought, well I'll go back to Lily. so Lily tells me she's leaving. so I went to sit with my brother and David. and I found yhem sitting there, and I thought maybe i could finally have a good time. but NO. They too are talking about personal jokes, and we were right behind part of the band, and this girl i know's tuba got jammed against my down there area. and then she saw me nd she screams at me and my brother "OMG is she your sister??? you look so much alike!!" when we really have no resemblance to each other. and my brother kept seeing more people he knew. so then this girl sits down next to me. and I recognized her. she can be nice at times, but she told me my lipstick looked ugly one time and so i stopped using it, and felt really self conscious about it from then on. and I'm like, "Hey claire this is my brother!" and she says, "Oh my I didn't know that." Just as my brother says "yeah. I know claire, she's Davids friend!" and it got really awkward. and they kept laughing and talking together and I felt really left out. i didn't know about most of what they were talking about. so then i see a girl I know who's in the band, so I call out "HI!" to her, and my brother says in a scolding voice "Don't do that! stop trying to act so cool!" and I felt so, bad then I started to cry. so after the game we came back home and I sat on the floor with my dog. My mom asks David how it went and he says "Oh it was fun! I got to see claire and stuff." and I said "claire said my lipstick was ugly, so I felt really horrible about myself and stopped using it." and david said "Oh. well. people are entitled to their opinions," and my brothr dissappeared. and then my mom says, "well, yes there are but they shouldn't say them like that!" and then my brother took David home and I felt like crap.

My friend Lily has gone boy crazy, and decided that one boy isn't enough for her. she is also accusing every girl under the sun of likeing and trying to steal away her boyfriend, including me. and everyday she claims she's too tired to do something, like she's so tired she has to leave the game and crap.

You're "friend" sounds like a b***h to me. I'm almost glad I never made many good female friends, too many vicious, confusing, misleading girls out there. It almost sounds like she's there with you by force or out of pity. I don't know if you wanted a different perspective, but you're getting one. If you're trying to hang out with the seemingly "popular" crowd, have "fun". "Popular" just means the peple that have the most impact in hgh school, and they're ususally only popular among themselves and some people are jealous because they can't see through the fake smiles and happy facade. "Popular" people are sad and pathetic little mainstream monkeys enslaved by MTV and endorsed by idiocy. Sorry to rant, I hate "popular" people.

Looking at your situation, I'm not sure what to say. I'm in my senior year, and have finally decided that I despise this miserable place and can't wait to get out. My high school experience has sucked, but here's some things I picked up on.

- Avoid anyone using the words: crunk, fo'schizzle (or any "izzle"), homie, and fag.
- Anyone who thinks their "popular" is usually an arrogant, cocky bastard.
- Don't befreind anyone who has anything to do with rumors, that way you'll have none about yourself floating around. Anyone who talks to you about rumors, probably spreads rumors about you.
- Rumors only spread within whatever crowd the person that started it is in, usually the only crowd that cares too.
- Football games (or any sporting event) are a place when "popular" people usually socialize and gather.
- Avoid people claiming to be gay that hang out with women only. They're usually being gay just to get away with ass-grabbing. I konw gays and bis who have few female friends, and are not super flamboyant.
- Don't become emo...please!

As for friends, I don't think I've ever actually introduced myself to anyone I know. I branch out through a small group of friends. I have one "feeder friend", who's friends I become friends with through association. And slowly I add and subtract friends form that status and they become regular frineds again. It took a while to perfect.

I'm done ranting now.

You're a freshman, right?

Yeah. and everytime she leaves or whatever or gets mad her excuse is she's tired....and I'm starting to REALLY HATE going to the same school he used to go to. he's in college now, but because of horrendous roomates he's at home during the weekened. and If I tell my mom about something that happened during school, and mention somebody he will but in! "why are you talking with so and so?" "you know so and so?? did you know he was gay?" "DO NOT talk about so and so that way it makes me sick!" and last night one of the tuba players was this girl I've known since 7th grade. and just a few minutes ago, he basically acted like he knew everything about her and I knew nothing, just because he tlked to her a couple of times during one night! he totally wouldn't listen to me, and he treated me like a baby!! he says "Nicole doesn't like band!" and I was like "well, TRistan, actually she does. she sits in front of me in World geography, and talks about it all the time" ( that was said in my head. but I really said" actually she does like it." and he said "No she doesn't! I'd know" which pissed me off to no end. and last night at the game, he treated me like a little baby. like his friends and stuff were playing around, and they would sometimes playfully wack him in the back of the head if he did something stupid, and I know sometimes me and my friends do that, and sometims I've done it at home. ( not meanly though) so he started talking about how sexy he was, and I said "eww!" and wacked him. and he SCOLDED me like i was a little child! "NO Emelia, don't do that!" and the girl playing the tuba looks at me, and the girl next to me (claire looks at me) and I felt so ashamed and upset I started to cry. and my mom told me a few minutes ago that he told her that he was angry because I "kept hitting him" and I told my mom. I'm confused! why is it ok for his friends to do it, but when i do it i'm treated like a naughty child!

also he has this real problem. say we'll be watching a tv show. and then a few days later I'll mention the show and he'll say "NO! That never happened!" and we'll get into an argument about it. like the song Blinded by the light, by manfred Mann(sp)! I told him it's by them, and he said "NO it's by bruce springsteen!" and I informed him that it was written by bruce springsteen. and we got into a fight about it and everytime the song played he would yell at me that it was by bruce springsteen! and he even directed me to a website with "proof" and then on the way to the game, he plays it and then says "yeah, Emelia, it's by manfred Mann!" and I said "yeah, I know, I told you!" and he says "No! You always thought it was by ELO!" and I was like who the hell is ELO you said it was by Bruce Springsteen! and he said he would never think that and that I was lying! I'm not stupid you know!

ShadesOfMe, my brother (younger) is the same way. I just ignore him or say something sarcastic, and he gets furious. I'd avoid yours because he's older, but that's just me. If you can't avoid him, ignore him. It works with my brother. And as long as thier's no violence involved, it should work.

Your brother sounds like an idiot. If I had a brother like that I would dick punch him.

I can understand why you are sick of him, and I feel for you.

I'm sorry people are such jerks, and you didn't have a good time. I hope you find things that you enjoy going to, I probably would not have enjoyed where you went either.