Joined: 27 Jan 2008 Age: 48 Gender: Female Posts: 560 Location: New Zealand
21 Apr 2008, 3:31 am
We had to put the fire on tonight (we are nearly into winter in New Zealand) and Damein was starting quite hard at the flames and spinning wheels on a train.
I was just wondering if him starting at the flames was a visual stim????
I find looking into a campfire quite comforting myself.... or a candle and can stare at a flame for a while...
it can be very meditative.. I think a controlled campfire can bring about an instinctive sense of security... From cave-men days -- fire meant warmth, food and community.
Joined: 13 Feb 2008 Age: 45 Gender: Male Posts: 8,430 Location: Ontario, Canada
21 Apr 2008, 6:48 am
Mum2ASDboy wrote:
We had to put the fire on tonight (we are nearly into winter in New Zealand) and Damein was starting quite hard at the flames and spinning wheels on a train. I was just wondering if him starting at the flames was a visual stim????
I did that when I was little. Does Damien spin anything else? Does he spin himself around like a top? Chances are it's stimming behaviour.
I find looking into a campfire quite comforting myself.... or a candle and can stare at a flame for a while... it can be very meditative.. I think a controlled campfire can bring about an instinctive sense of security... From cave-men days -- fire meant warmth, food and community.
Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Age: 56 Gender: Female Posts: 253
21 Apr 2008, 11:48 am
I know that I find watching a fire very relaxing, as well as at raindrops on the window. I can watch it for a very long time. It's mesmerizing. My NT son loves fires...but my AS more so.
All of my stims are physical...I instigate them and they feel good. While I enjoy staring at the fire, it doesn't take the place of my stims.