Train conductor makes fun of me. How do I get him to stop?

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I'm used to this type of abuse, which I received plenty of when I was in high school, but I'm saddened to know that the cycle I've been through so many times is repeating itself one more time. If it weren't because my neurosis and lack of kinesthetic intelligence prevent me from being violent, I would retaliate. And if it weren't because I lack the verbal intelligence and the communication skills to articulate coherent sentences in a timely manner, I would launch a sharp verbal attack against that man. But that's not the reality of my life, so what can I do to ease my sufering other than taking pride in being a martyr?

Last edited by Mw99 on 01 May 2008, 9:31 pm, edited 1 time in total.

More likely than not, he says the same ret*d statments over and over, no? Have a friend pretend to be him, and teach yourself some responses. Most people like that back down once they see you aren't a pushover.

Or just bring the friend with for the ride, and have them chew him out.

Clever.

remember, he's stuck being a train conductor, and you're getting off at your stop. People tend to find entertainment wherever they can. I'm sure you're not the only one he picks on. Ignoring him is a good way to handle it. If they see they can get a rise out of you, they'll do more. If they see they're not getting anywhere, they'll eventually lose interest.

What's he saying to you?
Is it mainly the same thing, as someone asked before?
Is he also physically threatening or big enough that he COULD hurt you physically...do you sense he'd have the nerve to do that in ANY situation?

I am not sure what to say w/out knowing more...but if he does usually say the same stuff...maybe put together 2-3 sentences that you could recite to him, so that you're not dealing with the "timely manner" thing? I know how that feels, not being able to speak in a timely manner in this context. Maybe you could simply look at him and say "hey man, what's the problem?" But in a non-threatening way, maybe half-smiling and acting COOL and composed.

Can you tell us what he says?

That can be irritating. We had a bus driver like that in my town. Not that it became a regular thing, because I rarely rode on his bus. He seemed to think his brand of humor was harmless. The effect it had on me, was disorienting, embarrassing, and annoying. For instance, I once asked if his bus went to a certain location. He said no. And then proceeded to make all sorts of odd faces. I checked the schedule, and then asked why the schedule said that his bus did indeed go there. After more farting around, he admitted that he was just kidding around, and admonished me to not be so serious. Other passengers were laughing. It wouldn't be so bad if I could tell when someone is joking. I enjoy a good laugh, but not at my own expense.

A simple "f**k you" should do.

Or you could have a friend cuss him out for being a jerk with a sucky job.

I'd play rough if I were you, but bring some friends to help.

(I can't stand jerks. So I just be a jerk right back.)

People tend not to bother you when they see you're not a push over.

MW99, I think IpsoRandomo has the right idea with f**k Off and die a**hole. unfortunately you have ruled that out. Maybe eat some delicious pinto beans and corn bread with some kimchi before getting on his train and nail him with pungent sbd air biscuit capable of blistering paint. Other than that I can't really help if you tie your own hands.

If you are being emotionally/verbally bullied by this man (and it seems you are), then you have every right to complain to the train company. If you can't articulate it well enough verbally, then write down (or type up) what has been happening and hand it to the ticket office. Or, find the website for the train company, and email them. Explain that you have a disability and that he is singling you out for ridicule because of it. Complaints of this nature tend to be taken very seriously.

Would you like me to punch his lights out.

What is being said?


Show him your Concealed Handgun License. It'll probably make him think twice.

Best idea so far. You could get him fired.

what u do in finland: 1 stand up and look him in eyes(or though em)
2 crap on shoulders and say u are walking on thin ice
3 if no effect kick him ass

Yeah but if he finds out why he got fired, who knows what he can do...if he's like a crazy guy or something that can turn dangerous.

good idea since that what u do in finland even my reaper agrees

Da best ting i could advise u is take his name n report it 2 da station manager den u should be well alright give it a go.