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Mikomi
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06 May 2008, 9:40 am

I never know what to say at the end of a letter or e-mail so I often just don't sign anything to it, even my name. It feels wierd to say "sincerely" or "love", etc. Anyone else?


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06 May 2008, 9:44 am

if its business related or something official like ill sign it "yours sincerely" or if its to a relative or friend ill sign it "love"

i used to feel that way when i was younger though, the more letters you write the more you'll get used to it (i did anyway *shrugs*



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06 May 2008, 9:53 am

I hated it, but my mother made me do it. I swear that the rules for thank you notes could have be easily followed by mail merge.

I'm used to it now, though I have had problems writing it when "Love" is in the zone between absolutely true and social nicety.



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06 May 2008, 10:03 am

I always write "regards" or "thanks in advance" if its something ive asked about or so.



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06 May 2008, 10:08 am

"Best wishes" is a good one. Not too formal but nonetheless unlikely to offend.

When it's someone I know very well I sign it "Love and dinysors, Me."


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06 May 2008, 12:10 pm

Yeah, I never know how to close it. What my final line should be. Most of the time it feels like i'm ending the letter in mid-thought. And i always use sincerely. Always.



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06 May 2008, 12:16 pm

Mikomi wrote:
I never know what to say at the end of a letter or e-mail so I often just don't sign anything to it, even my name. It feels wierd to say "sincerely" or "love", etc. Anyone else?


I just put

~Specter


(because I like the squiggly :D)
sometimes I end with "see you soon" or "hope you have a good evening," but that's only with one person. I agree that saying "love" or "sincerely" is weird :S


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06 May 2008, 12:20 pm

I write

Take care, from, love or for my family lots of love



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06 May 2008, 12:23 pm

Unless I mean it I do not say it so I just sign my name unless the feeling or thought is “heart felt”. Of course I also do not capitalize my name because I think it is societally presumptuous.

I guess I did not do very well in the “lying” portion of my social skills training.

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06 May 2008, 4:14 pm

I never know what to say either. I've spent hours stressing over how to end an email or letter. Everything sounds too fakely affectionate or generic or boring or cold. So I usually just sign my name.



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06 May 2008, 4:55 pm

I have a hard time finding what to write as well sometimes. I love the way Charles Bukowski occasionally ended his letters:

okay,

or

sure,

or

yes,


I like unexpected endings. :D The typical ones sound cold to me, almost fake.



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06 May 2008, 6:06 pm

For letters, I put 'sincerely'. For e-mails, I put TTYL or TTYS (talk to you soon).



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06 May 2008, 6:28 pm

It depends.

Either:

Cheers,
My initials

or:

Best,
My initials

If it's an e-mail regarding a job or something similar, I sign it like it's a letter.