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Tahitiii
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27 Aug 2009, 7:16 pm

Has anyone heard from KingdomOfRats?
I sent a PM on July 12 that she hasn't read.
And her blog looks like it hasn't been touched since August 2nd.
http://theresidentialautist.blogspot.com



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27 Aug 2009, 7:20 pm

In her post on July 31, she said the following: "Have been around even less lately to reply to messages on here or anywhere else, because of some very big and tiring things going on at the moment,am have even less com/interactive energy left to reply to messages [though have read them],and had left WP some time ago mostly due to this,going to try and get back to messages as soon as possible,sorry for not replying yet." That was a little while ago, but perhaps it is an explanation...



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28 Aug 2009, 3:05 pm

It's probably good to know she hasn't died; you never know in those group homes. Once my boyfriend worked at a group home and there was this ret*d guy who had a disease and was dying. They said he would probably die on my boyfriend's shift, and he did. I really hope they gave him painkillers. I sometimes wonder about my boyfriend's morality. He says all people are his people, but then he contradicts himself with his actions. He did some immoral things as a psych tech a few times, like forcing a boy (a patient) to talk on the phone to his grandmother and say nothing but nice things, just because the other staff told him he had to because the boy's grandmother had told them to make him... but aren't they supposed to be there to help the boy, not his grandmother? Maybe I misunderstand the situation. Maybe they would have let him not talk to her if he couldn't say nice things. And maybe my boyfriend had to do that for his own survival, to keep his job. Also, my boyfriend said that when they locked someone in a seclusion room, the more they protested the longer they were kept in there. Perhaps, I suspect, without meds to make them feel better, or anyone to talk to. But he did say that they would let someone run around (give them a place to do it) if the person needed to. Anyway, I'm off on a tangent again. My point was simply that you never know with those people.



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28 Aug 2009, 3:45 pm

Stassia_Florine wrote:
It's probably good to know she hasn't died; you never know in those group homes. Once my boyfriend worked at a group home and there was this ret*d guy who had a disease and was dying. They said he would probably die on my boyfriend's shift, and he did. I really hope they gave him painkillers. I sometimes wonder about my boyfriend's morality. He says all people are his people, but then he contradicts himself with his actions. He did some immoral things as a psych tech a few times, like forcing a boy (a patient) to talk on the phone to his grandmother and say nothing but nice things, just because the other staff told him he had to because the boy's grandmother had told them to make him... but aren't they supposed to be there to help the boy, not his grandmother? Maybe I misunderstand the situation. Maybe they would have let him not talk to her if he couldn't say nice things. And maybe my boyfriend had to do that for his own survival, to keep his job. Also, my boyfriend said that when they locked someone in a seclusion room, the more they protested the longer they were kept in there. Perhaps, I suspect, without meds to make them feel better, or anyone to talk to. But he did say that they would let someone run around (give them a place to do it) if the person needed to. Anyway, I'm off on a tangent again. My point was simply that you never know with those people.

Um.... I'm pretty sure that is not this situation.


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28 Aug 2009, 6:15 pm

Here's hoping that all is indeed well with KingdomOfRats.
I've always appreciated reading her worthwhile posts
and hope she'll be able to return soon.



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29 Aug 2009, 5:22 am

the_phoenix wrote:
Here's hoping that all is indeed well with KingdomOfRats.
I've always appreciated reading her worthwhile posts
and hope she'll be able to return soon.
ditto


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29 Aug 2009, 5:49 am

I miss her too and hope that all is well with her.