Unsure but afraid

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um i feel i could have very mild aspergers or could just b anxiety. okay strait to it. im not socially inept but feel outsided even tho i have a few close freinds i just can never tell whatbthey think of me unless they say and they do love me they think im quiky funny and witty so i cant see why i feel like this. i get stuck on thoughts that can persist for days. i find sex boring with either gender but enjoy tht closeness of people, secure. i a socail situation i never sit still i dont kw how i should be siiting or ..standing just uncomfortable. if i have to walk past someone down the street then i forget how to walk my legs lead and out of control. have majour personal space issues and dont like people touch me i freak out makes me very uncomfortabl. . i have trouble with eye contact i eitha dont give it or its quik i get locked in it and dont kw how to look away im not shy but i give the impression i am. im never innappropriate but ott or unique ive been told lol and adhd a few times but i feel im good at reading people lol mum taught me well like angry happy sad nervous chnge in tone fine. .
i dont kw how to share feelings with others the words just wont form or if someone is feeling bad im cannot comfort tthem. but if i was to write it down im amazing. every relationship im in seems pointless because i can never connect with people. i never make first move i dont no how thts it really. oh ill skip instead of walking anywhere but tht cud just b me. and i have no senory issues does everyone feel like this?

i dnt feel i hav sever enough symptoms to be worryd i cope alryt just peice of mind from a real person who has tolive with it everday so knows. i feel really stupid doing this wen their are real people who suffer but it does effect me so thank u for ur time and responses

welcome to wp. you seem to have some traits. there are many people in between. and we are not here to judge each other based on how many traits we have. we are here to share
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Welcome to WP!

Well, you certainly shared your feelings well with us. Welcome to the planet.

I've wondered myself which comes first, "social ineptitude" or anxiety. I'm always anxious in normal social situations, like standing in a checkout line at the grocery store. Is this because I'm making social mistakes and afraid I will do so again or be hated for it when I do... or am I making mistakes because I am afraid?

Hello, admoore, and welcome to Wrong Planet. You'll be amazed on the number of good people here on your side. Hang in there and visit often.