Moving into my new apartment soon

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Em its a really nice place kinda expensive anyway what can I do to make myself welcomed in this new place?

Should I be friendly to people em go out of my way to meet people in the complex?

Go to the pool there what should I be doing once I move in there?

My parents are helping pay for it and im still lookin for a job an yatta yatta all that stuff there kinda angry with me right now but yeah what should I do I got feeling I might isolate in the apartment and i dont want to happen too much

how old are you..?

good luck.

you'll soon find that dirt doesn't disappear on its own even though it has always appeared to before

Throw a housewarming and invite your neighbours.

Just do what makes you happy.

When i lived completely alone i went a long time isolated by myself.. aside from work i had hardly any if or no contacts..

Have you tried Meetup.com in your area? There are several here in the Bay Area (California) for Aspie adults, and in the US there are about 155 such groups. The ones here are pretty cool, and aimed at both making friends and sharing information on services, etc.

I would also definitely do the 'housewarming' party and invite your neighbors -- I think that's a great idea. Have tons of food and beverages, put on some music, invite everyone at a specific hour, and there you go. No one expects you to do much else beyond opening your door, and if you have enough people show up, you don't have to worry about small talk -- they can small talk amongst themselves, and you look like a totally cool guy for having everyone over.