if you have personal issues!!??

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If you have personal with a paticular person does person pose a thert to you , and how do break from them in a way your acct. won't be wiped?

I agree with you , Howver he is intertwined with anonther group in which I'am invovled. A major concern is he could defame me or hurt me to a way my mental stats may never come back fully. I can ignore him but will he choose to let bygons be bygons?


Valuman /Jeremy

Maybe you should PM a mod and ask their advice. That way they will know that there is a problem, and if this person tries to get you in trouble in the future they will know that the preexisting issue could have motivated them to complain about you? Obviously you would have to save the PM (or the mod's answer, whichever you can save) so you would have a record if you need it later.

Can you contact this person and point out that your personalities seem to be leading you to repeatedly clash - without laying blame on one person or another. Can you "agree to disagree" over major points of contention. Is it neccessary to agree that (in the interests of reducing conflict and giving each other space to express your own personalities) you do not post on each other's boards?
Recognising each other's differing personalities and honouring your opponent can reduce conflict in the future.

Stand down , I've talked with him and we shall both sit down , "not to rock the boat".


Valuman/Jeremy