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Ravenclawgurl
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10 Oct 2008, 1:05 pm

I finally get a chance to Socialize and go out

I make plans for halloween to go to the city to see the parade with some friends ( who i havent seen in like since begining of september


Then i finallyh hear from this one friend Virginia who I havent seen in at least a year and havent spoken to since june (execpt for random little messages on facebook) and shes having a babyshower on november 1 what to do?! !! !! !! !! !! !! I dont know if its possible to do both ?!

please help!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!



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10 Oct 2008, 2:38 pm

If you haven't heard from her since June and she only contacts you to ask you to buy her a present (that's what a babyshower is) I'd pass on that and go to the halloween thingy.



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10 Oct 2008, 4:31 pm

The Halloween outing was already on your calendar. Do it and don't feel guilty. You can send a card and small gift saying you're sorry but you had a prior engagement.



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10 Oct 2008, 4:35 pm

Ooo ... Hallowe'en!! ! The one night out of the year when an Asper can socialize and not be thought of as weird! Put on your Elvira costume and have a ball! (Take pics and post'em, please?)

Send your friend a card with a gift certificate. She'll take the hint.



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10 Oct 2008, 11:25 pm

Ravenclawgurl wrote:
I finally get a chance to Socialize and go out

I make plans for halloween to go to the city to see the parade with some friends ( who i havent seen in like since begining of september


Then i finallyh hear from this one friend Virginia who I havent seen in at least a year and havent spoken to since june (execpt for random little messages on facebook) and shes having a babyshower on november 1 what to do?! !! !! !! !! !! !! I dont know if its possible to do both ?!

please help!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


make a choice which is more important. You can always reschedule going to the city.


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11 Oct 2008, 2:23 am

matsuiny2004 wrote:
make a choice which is more important. You can always reschedule going to the city.


apparently its a halloween parade....

OP say you're busy with the parade...simple.

I have to go trick-or-treating this time :afro:


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12 Oct 2008, 9:45 pm

news flash

i no longer have plans to go to the parade :(


I was gonna do both


but then today when i called up the friend about halloween it turns out they already had made plans to go to a bar afterwards and one problem I am under 21!! !! !! !! ! I cant get in to no bar :x


I hate being stuck in the middle


Im too old for this too young for that.......

too neurotypical for this......... too aspie for that

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