I blink a lot because my eyes hurt. I've mentioned it to doctors, but that leads nowhere.
I do it so much that it's annoying even to me, even when I'm sitting alone.
Shall I go through life explaining it to everyone in every conversation?
I'm sure I frown more that I realize when I have a headache. Sometimes I say it, sometimes I'll give some sign, like putting my head in my hand. I can't do that all the time.
People from the mid-west drive me crazy with their timing. They don't have an accent, but they have funny little pauses and dead air in the conversation that make communication and trust impossible. I need to make a conscious effort to remember that it means nothing. The relationship remains civil and cooperative, but never gets to the warm-and-fuzzy stage.
My brother has that white-boy, tight-azz walk that screams "snob." And he is a little bit of a snob, now that I think of it. But that's not why he walks like that. It's purely physiological. My other brother has a kind of a cave-man walk that says he's friendly and approachable. Again, it means nothing -- he's just built that way.
People who can read each other become natural friends, and that's great. Have fun. But don't use it as a basis for aggression against someone outside the clique (me). Find something better to do.
In self-defense conversations, they tell you to "trust your instincts." If you take that to mean "get away," that is smart because you might be right about the thug and there's no point in taking the risk. If you take it as a call for a preemptive strike, that's psychotic. The truth is that you don't know anything about a stranger, period. You are only guessing.
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