Really missing him

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My husband went to Austraila with the Marines for two weeks. I have known him for almost 4 years and this is the longest we have spent away from each other. I miss him so much, I have faith and trust in my husband and I know he will come back to me, but I really miss him.....I try to remember during this time that he married me so that means he loves me, and I try not to worry about anything else.........but it can be so hard sometimes, am I just being a woman or do Aspie's tend to worry a lot? Is their a cure for love and missing someone so much that you just want them back in your arms? I guess I will just keep praying....

I think it's common for Aspies to feel insecure. We 're so used to social failures we tend to obsess over our successes and fear they won't last. I have an NT friend I've grown attached to and start to panic if I haven't had an email or SMS for 3 days because I worry he'll get tired of me and move on....

Really why do you do that? Often I will ask my husband "Do you love me?", he says yes of course...I don't know why I ask so much, but at times it can make him angry that i ask as often as I do. I know he does, but your right, I always feel like something will change. Or I will loose him.........even though I am a great person.

Why are we so insecure?

I empathize with you, and I wish you well.