Odd... I am "truly happy" the way I am, and quite satisfied with being strongly Aspie.

And, you know, you'll never get all the way to NT--anyone old enough to use an Internet forum is past the point where you can change your brain that much. (Actually, anyone old enough to babble his first word is past that point. Twelve months, maybe. Probably younger. Even then, not without trauma.)
So if you try to be NT and you constantly tell yourself that if you are Aspie you are unacceptable and will never be happy... then you will never accept yourself or be happy unless you change that basically false premise.
It's not like it's impossible to fake NT without rejecting your AS and assuming you'll never be happy if you're Aspie. It's certainly not impossible to learn stuff that makes life easier for you and helps you to communicate with the NTs.