eudaimonia wrote:
Atrice wrote:
Anyone who thinks that people with anorexia are refraining from eating clearly don't understand what anorexia is. The vast majority of anorectics don't tell others about their disorder; in fact, they'll go out of their way to keep their disordered eating habits a secret.
Hm. I am confused maybe you can help clarify.. how is anorexia not 'refraining from eating' ? Granted I realize there is more to it than this (excessive control over a very basic function/desire/need, possibly distorted perceptions surrounding body and physical existence, etc..) but what about refraining from eating does not describe anorexia?
I have been there and I'd say that mostly what was on my mind was refraining from eating, controlling the quality and quantity of food I consumed. The secretive and over-obsessive part of it seems to be the only thing that really makes it a problem. IMHO, calling anything a disorder makes it seem like it needs to be completely remedied / eradicated.
Yikes. Sorry, that was a typo. It should be: "Anyone who thinks that people with anorexia are refraining from eating
for appearence's sake."
buryuntime wrote:
I'm not sure about your insistence with anorexia not being about self-esteem issues as well. I certainly have issues with that and it appears League Girl also has body image problems.
You misunderstood what I said -- I said that not
everyone with anorexia has self-esteem issues. Certainly the vast majority do, which is why that stereotype exists. Making broad generalizations, though, such as "
all/ anorectics have self-esteem issues" is ignoring the people who aren't struggling with self-esteem issues, but rather with issues revolving around control and obsession with perfection.