Asperger's and Hyperfocusing
Many people in the spectrum have the trait of 'hyperfocusing'.....I certainly do. Thinking on this, I began to wonder if others have found this trait sometimes be a great benefit in life's 'great tests'. Have you ever thought that your ability to focus intently on something was beneficial, whereas if you didn't have this trait you might not have been able to accomplish something important. I was thinking about the years of me being the 24-7 caregiver of my Rett Syndrome daughter......I dedicated MY ALL to her and her needs.....and I am happy about that. I am not good at juggling....but at least I can know that I took care of her with ALL my heart......she wasn't just a part of my existence....she was my existence.....if I wasn't Asperger's I might not have been as good at caring for her. Do you notice that you love to dedicate your self to something that really matters in the scope of life. Sometimes I feel like a loser, in so many ways......but not in the ways that I am able to DEDICATE my whole self.
why of course. i don't see a problem with my hyperfocusing - i do see however, that it is loathed by people around me.
all i do is hyperfocus. why would it be a problem, except for the fact that the majority of social rules and ways of living do not adequately cater for it ?
i am so through with veiwing my AS as the great disaster. sure, i've had a really hard road, but i have the most amazing interior world and outer world that is fed by my special interests.
it is great for me and a nightmare for others.
i am at apoint at 46 with just saying "f..k off world...i'm not going to compromise on who i am at all anymore."
churlish perhaps? immature?
bah-humbug!
Last edited by millie on 25 Jan 2009, 11:46 pm, edited 1 time in total.
I have a poor short term memory and a good long term one, so I think hyperfocusing helps me remember things.
I could read an article and probably forget what I read a few minutes later, but if I was interested in it I would probably spend 2 hours looking it up from different sources, and then I'll remember every detail about it.
It's also a good way to beat boredom.
And my hyperfocusing with photography has taken me pretty far: free access to gigs, a few photo exhibits under my belt and the potential to actually make a bit of money from it. One problem was it was all I cared about, I even hated going to gigs with friends because they got in the way, as horrible as that sounds..heh.
I could read an article and probably forget what I read a few minutes later, but if I was interested in it I would probably spend 2 hours looking it up from different sources, and then I'll remember every detail about it.
It's also a good way to beat boredom.
And my hyperfocusing with photography has taken me pretty far: free access to gigs, a few photo exhibits under my belt and the potential to actually make a bit of money from it. One problem was it was all I cared about, I even hated going to gigs with friends because they got in the way, as horrible as that sounds..heh.
gee penseive. that is exactly how i am. the prerequsite for my hyperfocusing is also that i must be intrested. no interest and there is virtually no memory.
Yes. People at work ask me how it is that I know so much about computers and I jokingly (and seriously) respond with:
"When I was younger and not married, when others were out having fun and getting laid . . . I was at my computer--for upwards 10 hours a day just learning stuff."
If it weren't for my ability to hyperfocus on things, I doubt I would be as successful at work.
Beneficial to me. I find myself fully energized by what I'm doing, and hours could pass by like minutes. I spent about 45 minutes analyzing the first eight measures of an SATB rendition of J.S. Bach's "Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring" right before bed, which was about the same as drinking eight cups of coffee right before bed because I slept terribly with the same eight bars playing repeatedly in my head. When I get deep into a subject, I lose track of time.
Last edited by Capriccio on 25 Jan 2009, 10:52 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Me too; my wife has called me at work and there I am deep involved in a project not realizing that I was supposed to leave almost an hour ago. I try not to start any projects when it's one hour from quiting time.
Me too; my wife has called me at work and there I am deep involved in a project not realizing that I was supposed to leave almost an hour ago. I try not to start any projects when it's one hour from quiting time.
I usually forget to do things like hang out clothes, feed pets, shower.
My mum isn't usually impressed.
Me too; my wife has called me at work and there I am deep involved in a project not realizing that I was supposed to leave almost an hour ago. I try not to start any projects when it's one hour from quiting time.
I usually forget to do things like hang out clothes, feed pets, shower.
My mum isn't usually impressed.
Yeah, for some reason the more mundane tasks don't seem to see any of that hyperfocus. Things like feeding pets (I previously had a piranha), paying bills, cutting the grass, etc.
What's worse is when people are like, "Why can't you apply that focus to other things?"
i've raised litters of prematurely born kittens, which required feedings every 45 minutes, for days and days... and then there's spike the finch, who i raised from... pretty much an embryo, given what he looked like when he hatched. that took round-the-clock for weeks, too, plus temperature control, plus hydration, plus when he got butt-fungus, plus...
and i guess there's my daughter, too.
it also got me through grad school - when i really needed to focus on research, i was damned good at focusing on research. for 20 or 30 hours at a stretch. too bad i didn't (probably still don't) have the social skills to parlay that into a living. i ~really~ dug that.
but i consider t all a real plus, yes.
I could read an article and probably forget what I read a few minutes later, but if I was interested in it I would probably spend 2 hours looking it up from different sources, and then I'll remember every detail about it.
It's also a good way to beat boredom.
And my hyperfocusing with photography has taken me pretty far: free access to gigs, a few photo exhibits under my belt and the potential to actually make a bit of money from it. One problem was it was all I cared about, I even hated going to gigs with friends because they got in the way, as horrible as that sounds..heh.
gee penseive. that is exactly how i am. the prerequsite for my hyperfocusing is also that i must be intrested. no interest and there is virtually no memory.
I'm another who is like this. It's amazing what a little interest can do for my otherwise terrible memory. If I'm interested I'm capable of mastery, if not, it's in one ear and out the other.
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I could read an article and probably forget what I read a few minutes later, but if I was interested in it I would probably spend 2 hours looking it up from different sources, and then I'll remember every detail about it.
It's also a good way to beat boredom.
And my hyperfocusing with photography has taken me pretty far: free access to gigs, a few photo exhibits under my belt and the potential to actually make a bit of money from it. One problem was it was all I cared about, I even hated going to gigs with friends because they got in the way, as horrible as that sounds..heh.
gee penseive. that is exactly how i am. the prerequsite for my hyperfocusing is also that i must be intrested. no interest and there is virtually no memory.
Wow, that's exactly how am, too! ...or three, I guess I should say lol
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?Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.? _Theodor Seuss Geisel (Dr. Seuss)
I could read an article and probably forget what I read a few minutes later, but if I was interested in it I would probably spend 2 hours looking it up from different sources, and then I'll remember every detail about it.
It's also a good way to beat boredom.
And my hyperfocusing with photography has taken me pretty far: free access to gigs, a few photo exhibits under my belt and the potential to actually make a bit of money from it. One problem was it was all I cared about, I even hated going to gigs with friends because they got in the way, as horrible as that sounds..heh.
gee penseive. that is exactly how i am. the prerequsite for my hyperfocusing is also that i must be intrested. no interest and there is virtually no memory.
I'm another who is like this. It's amazing what a little interest can do for my otherwise terrible memory. If I'm interested I'm capable of mastery, if not, it's in one ear and out the other.
I guess I should have waited before sending that last message lol. But I'm just like this. If I'm interested in something, I can remember every detail, but if I'm not, I have no memory of it.
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?Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.? _Theodor Seuss Geisel (Dr. Seuss)
I could read an article and probably forget what I read a few minutes later, but if I was interested in it I would probably spend 2 hours looking it up from different sources, and then I'll remember every detail about it.
It's also a good way to beat boredom.
And my hyperfocusing with photography has taken me pretty far: free access to gigs, a few photo exhibits under my belt and the potential to actually make a bit of money from it. One problem was it was all I cared about, I even hated going to gigs with friends because they got in the way, as horrible as that sounds..heh.
gee penseive. that is exactly how i am. the prerequsite for my hyperfocusing is also that i must be intrested. no interest and there is virtually no memory.
I'm another who is like this. It's amazing what a little interest can do for my otherwise terrible memory. If I'm interested I'm capable of mastery, if not, it's in one ear and out the other.
Me as well. I love hyperfocus, except when I am needing to work on school stuff, since it is not something I can easily hyperfocus on. ?However, as soon as I start researching tech, I will look at the clock and notice I have gone 10 hours of straight reading without a break.
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