THE WINNER - You'll never, ever catch him/her admitting to one tiny insecurity, fear, sadness, hurt, silly mistake, or ignorance of the subject matter at hand. They're the one who always did the right thing in their stories, always came out of situations with flying colors, and if ever anything bad happens to them, all you'll feel is that they disappear for a while and then come back (after secretly licking their wounds) as if nothing had happened, telling the (sad) story as if it was the funniest thing that ever happened to them, or blaming the other person for everything. They are always ready to give advice on internet forums, never seem to need any advice themselves. They usually look to bond with
THE LOSER - is always trying to learn from his/her mistakes, always at a stage of recovery from some hurt/failure/disappointment, always looking for a WINNER to follow.
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So-called white lies are like fake jewelry. Adorn yourself with them if you must, but expect to look cheap to a connoisseur.