husband irritates me to no end...

Post Reply New Topic

my husband thinks that aspergers and all that goes with it can be wished away. If I want it bad enough, I could wish it all away. I didn't know that you could wish away neurological disorders. My husband thinks I am lazy and that is my only problem.

Same with my dad. Is your husband Aries per chance?

No. he is gemini. The opposite of me, Libra.

Lazy in what regard? Wishing away Aspergers or something else?

HEY, ****I'M**** aries! What is wrong with Aries? If I were your husband, I would be more reasonable. Sadly, AS limitations, etc... are HIDDEN! I keep hearing some things and say "Only ONE person on this PLANET knows about how you feel, and that is YOU!"! If you say you have a pain in your leg, WHO AM I to say you DON'T! There is NO test to determine if you are telling the truth. Even if they COULD say your leg is PERFECT, maybe it is the NERVE! Even if they COULD determine that nerve is perfect, maybe it is the communication with other nerves. Even if they could determine THAT, maybe it is your threshhold. Even if they could determine THAT, maybe it is your perception! Frankly, they don't have an adequate test for ANY of that!

I am not sure what being Aries has to do with any of this...but my partner is an Aries..he has a wonky brain chemistry himself...he is a sort of complicated ADDer who is compulsive and prone to intense but short-lived obsessions....

He is fond of saying "There is definitely something wrong with you, but I don't think you're an Aspie." He also says that I just have "low self esteem"....but he didn't have to BE ME growing up with all my horrible awkwardness and sensory troubles....that stuff put a major hurt on my self-esteem, but self-esteem is not the crux of my troubles....

He does not see the forest for the trees because he has a lot of issues himself...

But I don't think any of this has anything to do with him being an Aries...