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13 Mar 2009, 6:31 pm

Its not. I'm leaving the community. I don't feel welcome nor safe here, especially when I'm insulted for defending myself. I honestly believe that some of you deserve your problems. You're bad people and by no means is William Freund the last.

I hate you ALL, and its a deep and seething hatred. People are all scum, NT, ASD ...doesn't matter.



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13 Mar 2009, 6:37 pm

Well, if you're another William Freund, then I think you probably have answered your own question about whether or not this is a great place to feel comfort when you are feeling persecuted. It didn't work out well for him! Here you'll find more people willing to be frank with you than elsewhere. If you want people to butter you up and comfort you as you act out, you maybe aren't at the right place. AS can be painfully honest and insensitive.

Sounds to me like you're in a very negative, social anxiety cycle right now, complete with some paranoia, manic behavior and perseveration. You have to find some way to break out of the negative mental cycling and perseveration. Maybe you should take some time off before posting again.

Find a happy, positive place for a while.



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13 Mar 2009, 6:38 pm

Best wishes in finding the suport you need.



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13 Mar 2009, 6:41 pm

Hey, I have never talked to you before but I see that you registered later than me. I believe you got upset about something and what that is doesnt concern me.

But I want to tell you to not judge a place too hard out of maybe one bad experience. This is not the way to handle a conflict in my opinion. If you felt offended by someone then try to approach in a private message and solve it. Most of us here have our social difficulties and missunderstandings can easily occur. But dont take for granted people just WANT to offend you by purpose.

We are all diffrent and think diffrent but few people would want to harm and freeze somebody out. If you felt hurt by someone then confront the person and say it. You can get a "sorry I didnt mean to" in return. That would be much better than leave in pure hate, wouldnt it! Believe me, its worth to confront it. In long term it will only give you benefits! Try it!


edit: I realised fast I went into too deep water here without having a clue what brought this topic on in the first place. Forget I was here...


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13 Mar 2009, 6:41 pm

ephemerella wrote:
Well, if you're another William Freund, then I think you probably have answered your own question about whether or not this is a great place to feel comfort when you are feeling persecuted. It didn't work out well for him!

Sounds to me like you're in a very negative, social anxiety cycle right now, complete with some paranoia, manic behavior and perseveration. You have to find some way to break out of the negative mental cycling and perseveration. Maybe you should take some time off before posting again.

Find a happy, positive place for a while.


I see things very clearly, and when Garyww says that he has little sympathy for people who have the attitude "Woe is me" is a f*****g hypocrite when at the same time is trying to play the victim because people get frustrated that he doesn't know how to watch the damn video before commenting like a fool. How can you be unsympathetic to emotional problems but at the same time want to validate the point that you have trouble perceiving reality? Well guess what Garyww...I have little sympathy for people who cannot push the f*****g play button or at least ask for help before insulting out of ignorance.

No, No, No. You misunderstand what I am saying. I am saying that you people ARE William Freunds, you create William Freunds, and deserve to be ENDED by WIlliam Freunds.



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13 Mar 2009, 6:42 pm

Whimsi-Cal wrote:
I hate you ALL, and its a deep and seething hatred. People are all scum, NT, ASD ...doesn't matter.


You don't hate me because I was nice.



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13 Mar 2009, 6:44 pm

xalepax wrote:
Hey, I have never talked to you before but I see that you registered later than me. I believe you got upset about something and what that is doesnt concern me.

But I want to tell you to not judge a place too hard out of maybe one bad experience. This is not the way to handle a conflict in my opinion. If you felt offended by someone then try to approach in a private message and solve it. Most of us here have our social difficulties and missunderstandings can easily occur. But dont take for granted people just WANT to offend you by purpose.

We are all diffrent and think diffrent but few people would want to harm and freeze somebody out. If you felt hurt by someone then confront the person and say it. You can get a "sorry I didnt mean to" in return. That would be much better than leave in pure hate, wouldnt it! Believe me, its worth to confront it. In long term it will only give you benefits! Try it!


Why f*****g not? Go read Garyww's sweeting f*****g generalizations about new people, NTs, Aspies, ect. Why should I descriminate, Garryww doesn't. Lets just say that you're all scum and end it, or maybe I should be like Garyww and go post sneaky deliberate threads to get at new people....Maybe something like Cat people are idiot ret*ds...ect ect.



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13 Mar 2009, 6:47 pm

ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
Whimsi-Cal wrote:
I hate you ALL, and its a deep and seething hatred. People are all scum, NT, ASD ...doesn't matter.


You don't hate me because I was nice.


Thank you for being nice.



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13 Mar 2009, 6:51 pm

Whimsi-Cal wrote:
... I'm leaving the community. I don't feel welcome nor safe here ... I hate you ALL, and its a deep and seething hatred.

Doorknob ... butt ... out ... fill in the blanks.

Gosh, for someone so determined to leave, you sure are sticking around a long time!



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13 Mar 2009, 6:52 pm

YW Whimsi Cal. Ya know, Whimsi Cal, Garyww said in the other thread he would talk to you in a PM about this. Maybe if you two talked in PM, you could straighten this out. Could just be a misunderstanding?



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13 Mar 2009, 6:56 pm

Whimsi-Cal wrote:
I hate you ALL, and its a deep and seething hatred. People are all scum, NT, ASD ...doesn't matter.


Be careful how you word things like that, or people like me may get aggravated by the fact that "you all" may mean everyone here, including myself. Obviously this would be a very stupid thing to say as you've never spoken to me, or I'm sure many other people here who are now apparently hated for no reason.


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13 Mar 2009, 7:00 pm

Whimsi-Cal wrote:
...No, No, No. You misunderstand what I am saying. I am saying that you people ARE William Freunds, you create William Freunds, and deserve to be ENDED by WIlliam Freunds.


Well that certainly clears things up.

O had some great advice about PM'ing with garyww to talk things out. Even if it doesn't work, maybe you would feel better, even if you still decide you hate the site after talking w/him?



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13 Mar 2009, 7:03 pm

Whimsi-Cal wrote:
Its not. I'm leaving the community. I don't feel welcome nor safe here, especially when I'm insulted for defending myself. I honestly believe that some of you deserve your problems. You're bad people and by no means is William Freund the last.

I hate you ALL, and its a deep and seething hatred. People are all scum, NT, ASD ...doesn't matter.


I have to say. You acted like you were nuts, and your rant here makes it clear that you ARE! I haven't said ANYTHING against, or to, you until now. When someone is nuts, as you are, compliments, or insults, by them mean NOTHING!

So your rant means so little that it isn't even worth this little retort. Still, I figured I should let you know about your status in such matters. Goodbye!



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13 Mar 2009, 7:04 pm

What makes you think that everyone here has malicious intent? So far you've only mentioned one person who you assume hates you, and nothing that he's posted lately relates to you in any way.

I'm going to assume that there is much more to this that I'm not seeing, and even so, there are plenty of alternatives to work out your conflicts with other users besides quitting outright.

That being said, good luck in your future endeavors if you have no intention of reconsidering.

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13 Mar 2009, 7:05 pm

Whimsi-Cal...seems like your posts have a certain flavour to them that i have seen around these parts before - under a different guise.

there is, a fantastic vid of a zookeeper getting his head stuck up an elephant's butt, posted in the adult section, if my memory serves me correctly.

it is very good and very funny.

might i suggest you track it down? just for a bit of light relief?

(had our household in stitches.)


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13 Mar 2009, 7:11 pm

Rather than leaving, maybe it would be better to avoid people that you perceive to be treating you badly. There's 25, 148 people on this site. The majority are decent, kind and supportive. Why give your adversaries publicity by mentioning their names. Just ignore them and go about your business on WP as if they don't exist. If they harass you, keep a record of their harassment (before they edit it) and report it to the mods. I don't know you from Adam, as the saying goes, and haven't kept track of what's been going on between you and whats-his-name is, but hating everyone on WP and leaving seems a self-destructive way to go. Hate & anger can make you physically ill. Wishing harm on people is never acceptable, and I think you probably don't really mean that but are so upset that you're not thinking straight. I wish you well, whether you go or stay. Sometimes life sucks, you just have to hang in there and focus on the good things in your life and on Wrong Planet.