Getting the shaft from a group

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I got the shaft tonight. Some advise from getting "kicked out",is that you can not care!!

If you don't care, it doesn't hurt.

If you do care, and it hurts, and you can understand and let the hurt fade away after a while, then you're even better off, because it also lets you connect if it is possible to do so.

Uh-oh. What they did wasn't very nice. If this happened to me I would make up for it by finding something else to do to take my mind off it.

what did I miss? Doesn't sound like it was good, but we don't have much to go on...

What kind of group?

Why did they kick you out?

Is this the same group you have talked about in previous threads?

There were a couple of people that were really showing hatred towards me being around. I'm just there, and people get agitated. What goes through a NT's mind when they see us? Anyhow, I could not say anything correct, to them everything I said was stupid. To the others, it seemed to be fine. I was not having fun, and it was best for me to leave. In a NT group, NT's will support the NT's it seems. It reminded me of an incident while I was i highschool..hanging with a bunch of people, and this one person, who I would say was the captain of the group..whatever he says people do, he didn't like me... he got everyone to hate me...

How do you know the group is exclusively NT? Perhaps you need to have an interpretter as we may be misinterpretting your posts.