ephemerella wrote:
You are angry because I pointed out that you flunked your exams while trying to get into your professor's pants instead of studying.
In an earlier thread you posted how you were all into this professor while failing your exams. And you were asking if you should do him (or something like that... I'm not going to search for it) and what people thought about you and him. This was while you were trying to take a test you knew you were having trouble with.
I posted advice that you shouldn't get distracted by the professor... to focus on your math test (or something very similar to that).
You next posted a thread that asked if you "should major in math" after failing your math test that you had been trying to take while instead obsessing on the professor sexually: "i failed 2 exams in mathematical proofs already, does this mean that i shouldn't major in math? i think i failed the 2nd one. ...i have ocd and maybe add. does the grades indicate my intelligence and math ability as being inferior?"
My response to your thread was essentially that I think your question about "intelligence" and "math ability" were irrelevant. Your real problem is that you were unprofessional and irresponsible, interested more in doing the professor than the course.
I mean, this has been going on for days. You are posting your sexual fixation all over the website in threads you started: "you know the professor i like. i actually had the chance the walk with him out of the building and a little outside before we split. my classmate borrowed my book to ask him a question in the hallway and then i went with her in the opposite direction afterwards. i had to pay for a cookie i bought the day before, so i had to go in the same direction as my prof. i should have gone with him even if that's not my direction like even if i didn't have anything to pay. how dumb am i? it also seems like he goes to that restaurant, which is beside his building. he MIGHT come more often there because he has seen me going in there and also i would have had the chance to walk with him. at that time, there was some issue that we could have talked about, too. i don't know what i was thinking. i guess my brain thought it's time for the separation of prof and students."
My response to your "should i major in math" thread was basically that you don't have an academic problem, you have a professional focus and priorities problem. I suggested that you may not have what it takes to have an intellectual professional job, because that takes a lot of self-directed discipline.
I frankly don't care what people think of my biases and perspectives. When you post your sexual meanderings about your professor while you're talking about how you're failing tests, and then post a question about whether or not your failures are related to your intelligence, you are inviting someone to answer.
I can't believe you have the opportunities you have, that many AS people would love to have, and you're squandering your parents' money and your opportunities in this way. I told you my opinion that you should think about another career than an intellectual profession like mathematics, unless this is some strange departure from a normally dedicated academic career.
Why post these questions if you don't want real answers? Now you can hate me, but I speak my mind.
Frankly, you strike me as a silly ho.
quite frankly its not really your place to sit there and use very little evidence to make assertions of character. Besides it not being correct it leaves you in an adversarial role to most people. Now its fine that you think that besides it being factually incorrect (funny you don't know that many professors have failed classes before I had a English teacher who used to fail English) its a matter of he/she will get serious when she wants to. College is indeed a necessary factor in today's life since high school diploma and an Associates are relatively useless in today's world.
The problem is development starts with the individual and even if you were to give "friendly" advice it wouldn't be taken well with your presentation of that advice. It comes across as merely needing to put people down to overcompensate for your low self esteem. Now that is an observation based on posts does that really mean your insecure? not really but I am pointing out that your advice is being looked at as insults so you can continue along that path but it wouldn't be very fruitful.
So basically if your going to give people advice you might want to put in a way where they would actually be receptive to it. If its not for the purpose well then I think you'll have a very hard time trying to discuss your ideas. I was previously under the impression you left to go to a "High IQ forum".
19 Mar 2009, 9:30 pm
