Can't Relate.

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I hate the fact no one I know offline can relate with me.
They can't understand why I'd want to spend all day on my computer. Even my friend who's Aspie doesn't get it. The few people who are good on computers that I know, still can't relate to the extent I wish I could. I know so much, but have no one who would understand it to talk to it about.
It really sucks. I feel like I'm excluded. Other girls talk about guys I find so unappealing, and I can't like a guy based on just looks and the occasional, 'hi'. Or they talk about other things which I can't stand, like high school musical or something.
I watch sitcoms like The Big Bang Theory, and wish I had friends like that, which I could relate to and not be consistently embarrassed about my obsessions.
One of the main reasons I want to become a Forensic Scientist is because I think I'd be able to relate with people better there. I love Science.
I don't know.
Can anyone else relate? Lol, share your stories of not being able to relate .
EMZ=]

My bf doesn't seem to get sex is not that important and we don't need to follow the rules of society and relationships. I mean why do people feel they need to follow these rules just because society says we have to do them? I don't think my bf understands why I don't want to follow rules in society and relationships. I told him I like to be free and do what I like. I don't think he can relate to that.

I also stay on my computer all day long. I have difficulty relating to NT's, although I can socialize marvelously with others with AS. I think the experience you're describing is more the rule for us than the exception.