I hate bars, clubs, etc. I went in a bar once because it was part of a special invite and I was told by work I "needed to be seen" at that special event. It was loud, full of firefighters (many I knew) and was, I cant describe the feeling but Scary was the best word for it. That was the first and last time I'll ever go to a bar.
I LOVE to dance, strangely enough, but I havent a dance partner... lol. I wonder if dancing counts as a stim... lol. I went to a "family" dance hall once at the forceful request of my little sister, I payed 7.00 to sit all night and watch the purses of everyone else in the group. I didnt get asked to dance except by a stinky guy they called "the Mill" Im very sinisitve to odors and I would have puked on. But from what I understood the old guy (like my grandfather old) asked everyone to dance. I might have had he not been marinated in what ever that aftershave/cologne/repellant was. But still, no one even colse to my age asked me. that made me feel kinda left out, so.... I havent been back.. I mean 7.00 to sit and watch others dance... I dont think so....