There's nothing cool about being a sociopath. Sociopath and antisocial are two terms that are often misunderstood. The major characteristics are lying, manipulation, and often criminal activity. Essentially, they have no conscience. For an excellent example of the antisocial personality(as a sociopath is now called in psychiatric circles), get the series Profit on DVD. The main character, Jim Profit, is a ruthless crawler up the corporate ladder. He goes to great lengths to manipulate those around him to get what he wants. And he often succeeds, because he's such a good liar. Sociopaths are not mopey emo outcasts. They are actually very good at blending in with the crowd, and make good first impressions(Example: Ted Bundy). The term for us, and mopey emo outcasts, would actually be asocial, not wanting to be in with the crowd, but not deliberately doing anything to violate the rights and trust of others, while cloaking it in a false sense of caring, like so many sociopaths. We might make mistakes in social conduct, but it's not on purpose.