Krabo, two incredibly delightful women want to have lunch with you and are going to put a lot of effort into travelling to YOUR city. You can?t seriously be thinking that you?d turn us down?
Mooms, I?ve lived in the UK! It seems there are several people in this thread whose countries I?ve lived in. But I?m not really that brave. I think I?d start getting nervous a few days before and then be slightly panicky just before meeting you, but you?re so nice and the more I talk to you the more comfortable I feel, so I think in the end I would mainly be excited and happy to be meeting you. And if I find people who are really nice and smart and funny, then the desire to see them and talk to them in real life starts to over-ride the normal anxiety I have about meeting new people.
I do wonder what it?s like when aspies meet up. Because the premise is that you?re bringing together people whose social skills are really poor and who suffer from social anxiety, and then making them engage in the one thing that they struggle with most, i.e. social interaction. On a purely logical level it sounds like it could be a total disaster, but somehow I'm starting to feel that maybe it would actually be easier? Because everyone knows beforehand that it?s most likely going to be awkward at first and it?s possible that there will be silent moments when no one can think of anything to say, and on a general level everyone is going to be slightly confused and overwhelmed, but at the same time you all know this, and you can laugh about it and just relax, enjoy a good meal, share your experiences, talk about your interests and just generally enjoy the company and have a good time. Or what do you guys think? Would it be a catastrophe or easier than socializing with normal people?
Enviro, yes, I?m closing in! Very excited!
_________________
Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted. -William Bruce Cameron-