1st time:
Why Are You Still Single?
You're Lacking Confidence
Ask anyone for their top five characteristics in a potential significant other and chances are, confidence tops the list. Nothing is sexier than confidence-- besides, how can you expect someone to be into you if you don't think you're worth being into? A lack of confidence usually translates into an insecure, needy, desperate bf/gf and nobody wants that. Throwing yourself a pity party will not get you a date, but believing that you deserve one is a good first step.
2nd time:
Why Are You Still Single?
You're Scared of Intimacy
No, I'm not talking about what you do in bed-- you've got that part covered. But when things get serious emotionally, you tend to back away. You're what we call a ''commitmentophobe.'' Whether it's because you fear letting someone into your life or that you're scared of getting hurt or that you're just not sure that there isn't a better out there, settling down with one person practically gives you hives. Whatever the reason, it's important to get to the root of the problem and solve it. Giving a part of yourself to someone else in a relationship certainly is intense, but if you're with the right person, you're likely to gain more than you'll lose.
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Be kinder than necessary for everyone is fighting some kind of battle
-Jaleb