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One of my areas of intense interest has always been sex. Everything about it fascinates me and I have been willing to try lots of things just for the experience. I have certainly been lucky in that I have never had a problem finding a sex partner.

It's disappointing. I lost my virginity last November and it was really meh. It wasn't bad but not fantastic like everyone says it is. Then I got to the point where I would space out during sex (and masturbating) and just want it to be over. I'm not dating the dude anymore (for a completely unrelated reason) but I wonder if I'll ever get to the point that I'll love it. I know it's supposed to take time but if you rarely have a partner to have sex with, the progress is stagnant. I just wanna know what an orgasm feels like so I can see what the buzz is about. I feel that women definitely get the short end of the stick (no pun intended) when it comes to sex. :/

Have you ever given yourself an orgasm? A large percentage of women do not reach orgasm by intercourse alone. It would be good for you to get to know your own body and find out what gives you pleasure. If you wait for the man to do it all, you may never reach your full sexual potential. (I was the same way in my twenties. )

In other words…

• Get on the Internet.
• Read up on female sexuality and how best you might satisfy yourself.
• Go to the bedroom and spend lots of time finding out how your body reacts to pleasurable stimulation.

The End.

Not at all, not at all. I'm glad I could be of help.

No I haven't given myself an orgasm yet. I don't have the time or privacy to do so. I don't have my own computer anymore so I have to use public computers and I'm not doing that in public. My roommate never leaves so I can't do it when she's there (which is 95% of nights). One time when she actually went home, I tried masturbating even though I wasn't in the mood because I knew i wouldn't get another chance. Fingers, vibrators, lube...all fruitless. I felt numb, bored and frustrated. I'm glad those vibes were gifts from a friend because I wouldn't ever want to spend my own money on that stuff. D:

if it weren't for periodic self-administered orgasms and the occasional grand meal [thanksgiving and xmas] to anticipate and experience, i would have gone catatonic decades ago. those two things are the life-saving/life affirming leavening of my world.

Erisad: A large part of it is the fact that you're not relaxed. You need to be relaxed in order to enjoy the experience.

Sex is amazing.

Go and have some then, instead of making idiots like me jealous.

The husband is distracted by his Magic cards. :-\

I love to be cuddled, kissed, hugged and caressed. Somethings i missed out during childhood since parents were aloof never holding me, touching me or caring for me.
I like the concept of being loved and cared for. So occasional sex feels good
Actually i fell in love with a person couple of years ago and just cant get him out of my head
we were just friends and spoke on phone nothing physical
but whenever i have sex with my hubby i keep thinking about this guy and the present goes kaput

If you want sex that much (and he agrees), why not swing?

Swing as in trade sex partners?

Yeah.

Or he could be a cuckold, if that fetish attracts him? Needs to be very careful how it's done, mind.

Neither works for me.

well in all honesty id rather have a cuppa x over rated ? yes definatley, its not that my partner isnt any good i think im just not that into it x