First I wanted to be a vet. From before I can remember until I was about 13, that was what I was going to do and I never considered anything else.
Then I was going to be a nurse. From 13 to nursing school, that was what I was going to do and I never considered anything else.
I hated nursing school. Tried teacher's school. Liked it, but got de facto kicked out for being opinionated.
Went back to nursing school. Still hated it.
Found myself pregnant. Quit school. Had a kid. Realized that, all my life, what I'd really wanted to be was a MOTHER.
Went back to school. Got a degree in English. Eh.
Hubby finished engineering school. Had more kids.
I think when they go to school, I might give trade school a try. I've wanted to build things since I was little, but people always told me someone as "smart" as me had to go to college.
Screw them. We'll be like a bad joke-- the contractor and the engineer. The Aspie contractor and the NT engineer. The fights will be epic.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"