I dont care for looking as young as I have been told that I look, which is usually early to mid 20s. I get referred to as 'young lady', I get stared down by high school kids, and hit on by young college boys. I'm 34 and if I'm still around in a few months, I'll be 35. It probably wouldn't bother me so much, if all of the obstacles that I've had to overcome and hard work that I've put into my existence, had actually paid off, instead of what my existence is.