Thank you all! I did finally get my diagnosis yesterday. My neuropsychologist based it on the ASDS and CARS, and interviewing me about stims, echolalia, and such. I would have been curious to see how I did on the ADOS others mentioned. My neuropsych has known me for about a year and already suspected that I may have Aspergers and he was also able to point out other traits I have that made the diagnosis likely. In the past I've been diagnosed with depression, generalized anxiety, social anxiety, and ADHD, which all made sense at the time. But I've always known there was something else underlying all of that and I feel like now things finally fit together better.
Chickadee, I did not have my parents involved in the interview. (I am in the US so not sure if the guidelines are different here.) My dad and nephew both have ASD traits in my opinion, but my parents have always been hesitant to let others "label" me even when teachers pointed out my hand flapping and muteness to them. I have not told them about the diagnosis yet. I think there may initially be some denial when I do tell them. I don't think that in my case it would have been a good idea to have them involved in the diagnostic process but I can see how parental opinions would be useful. Good luck to you! Keep us posted on how it all works out for you.